Some women, who originally had a happy and warm family after marriage, sometimes cannot feel the warmth of their family, cannot appreciate their husband's care, and even sometimes see their husband's strengths as weaknesses. Over time, this became an excuse for their divorce. However, after the divorce, they found that their new life was also unsatisfactory, and their new husband was not as good as before. So, they did it again. This phenomenon is worth pondering. Recently, I interviewed three women like this and listened to their stories.
I turned around and came back again
The first remarried woman I interviewed is Ye Xiaoli, a 31 year old internal medicine nurse at a hospital with a 5-year-old daughter. She divorced her husband three years ago and just remarried this year.
At the age of 24, Xiaoli fell in love at first sight with a driver. Especially after the driver made money and opened a car repair shop, Xiaoli decided to marry the owner of the shop. After marriage, life was very easy. Her husband doted on her and gave her whatever she wanted. The family also hired a nanny. However, in less than two years, Xiaoli grew tired of this kind of life and felt that her husband lacked interest. She admitted that she had let her husband down and soon had extramarital affairs. The man is a handsome third rate movie actor who doesn't have a fixed unit and often can't even afford to eat.
The first year we were together was very happy and romantic, and the second year was also good. In the third year, I divorced my husband. But in the end, I still didn't dare to marry this actor. The reason is that this man is a libertine, constantly squandering money and asking me for it almost every day. That's how we broke up
I said, 'So, did you think of remarrying your ex husband again?'
It's not that I thought of it, it's that our fate hasn't been fulfilled yet, "Xiaoli smiled again. That time my ex husband underwent kidney stone surgery and ended up staying in the ward I managed. I had no prior knowledge of it, which made me feel embarrassed. It really forced us to come together again
Water can be collected, warmth wins
Xiaomei got married at the age of 23. Her husband is a high school Chinese teacher with deep myopia, elegant behavior, timidity, and restraint. She pays great attention to the details of daily life and is a typical young intellectual. When Xiaomei first got married, she was still satisfied with her husband.
Xiaomei's husband also has a tight grip on the family, able to spend two cents on a dime for practical benefits. Xiaomei said that she had no intention of leaving her husband at first, even though he was too petty and had a strong sense of filial piety, he still took good care of herself. And a family with limited income, thanks to his careful planning, surprisingly added many large items, even a set of high-end audio equipment. It's not a big deal to gradually anger Xiaomei and divorce her husband. Once her husband went on a business trip to Dalian, Xiaomei urgently needed money to spend, so she mortgaged two thousand yuan of treasury bonds that were about to expire. This incident later caused her husband to complain for six months. There was one more thing, her husband understood that she didn't want to have children, so he secretly went for a sterilization surgery without consulting her. This made Xiaomei angry, so Xiaomei and her husband turned their faces and divorced.
Within six months, Xiaomei fell in love with a football coach. Compared to her ex husband, this man is incredibly masculine. Just as she was preparing for her marriage, something suddenly happened that made Xiaomei's heart ache and she almost wanted to seek death. One night, she went out to socialize with the coach and, out of politeness, danced a few extra dances with several male guests, which made him unhappy. As soon as he returned to his residence, he kicked her into the bathroom and forcefully pressed her head into the flush toilet, causing her to choke on a lot of dirt and almost suffocate. After being humiliated this time, Xiaomei left the football coach. Later, her parents facilitated her remarriage with her ex husband. Xiaomei has to admit that although her ex husband is frugal and sometimes even stingy, he is still gentle and considerate, taking care of his wife like he loves the flowers of the motherland, and managing the household. This is also a good scenery, and many men may not have the above advantages!
Three in and three out, fallen leaves return to their roots
This remarriage story is quite unique because the female protagonist has established relationships with two men after divorcing her original husband, making her a "veteran" in the marriage scene.
The female protagonist of the story is named Liu Fang, who is an actress in a certain singing and dancing troupe and has some small fame in the entertainment industry. Her original husband was her teacher during her studies and the head of a department at the Dance Academy. At that time, Ms. Liu was 22 years old and he was 32 years old. Ms. Liu's first husband had a good temper, and because he came from a poor family, he had the ability to grow his own vegetables on a barren land in school, feeding his wife and many colleagues to a smooth and moist state. He often wore a smile of "Nanniwan" on his face.
After three years of peaceful days, she fell in love with a director of mixed Chinese and Russian heritage during a performance abroad. After returning to China for a year, Ms. Liu calmly parted ways with her first husband and quickly married this mixed race director. However, this marriage only lasted for less than two years, and the reason for the split was that the director once went to Shenzhen to direct a movie, visited a brothel, and brought home a sexually transmitted disease, which affected Ms. Liu and took her several months to recover from the illness. After being lonely for over a year, I met my third husband, a young writer. Unexpectedly, she only maintained a relationship with her third husband for a year before boasting again. [page]
After staying for five years, at the age of 35 last year, she broke into her ex husband's residence in a strong sense of loneliness. He still lives in the dormitory of the dance hall and has never been married.
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