News
The ＂remarriage craze＂ ： It has a unique flavor
Time:2025-08-28 Views:1186
Marriage is like a besieged city. Those inside want to get out, while those outside want to get in. However, after taking a stroll around the city, many people still think it's better to stay inside. Recently, a reporter learned from the civil affairs department that there are more and more couples nowadays.
It is reported that nowadays, the majority of those who remarry are middle-aged people aged 35 to 50. Remarriage is the result of their calm thinking after divorce. It is understood that impulsive divorce, for the sake of children and difficulties are important reasons for couples to remarry. After many couples enter into marital life, they lack the ability to manage their marriage. Under the "consumption" of daily necessities, love becomes dull and tasteless. Conflicts between the couple are inevitable, the foundation of the marriage begins to waver, and even leads to divorce. Divorce, however, cannot truly solve the problem. New relationships also face the same issue: when life is as dull as water, how can love last? The most distinctive feature of people who remarry is that they have learned how to face the mundane daily life.
After searching around, the original one is still the most suitable
Li Mei and Zhou Jun are both 32 years old this year and both are teachers. And they are also classmates. The emotional foundation was originally very good, but because Zhou Jun was crazy about playing mahjong and often lost his sense of proportion, he played so badly that he forgot everything and had no ambition at all. This made Li Mei very sad. After many fruitless attempts to persuade her, Li Mei insisted on getting a divorce. Zhou Jun, however, didn't think he had made a big mistake in playing cards. He felt that there were many young people who loved playing cards nowadays. He blamed his wife for being too harsh on him. In a fit of pique, they got married at the end of the previous year.
The two have an 8-year-old son, who is raised by Zhou Jun's mother. After the divorce, every time Li Mei saw her son, she found that he had become taciturn and was very unhappy, looking very mischievous. After Zhou Jun's divorce, he had several relationships, but none of them were as good as Li Mei. Recalling Li Mei's various good qualities, Zhou Jun was very eager to remarry. He made up his mind to quit his gambling addiction. I have become very responsible and have been striving for progress in my work. I was promoted to grade group leader at school.
Li Mei still couldn't forget Zhou Jun. After all, Zhou Jun was her first love and also the father of her child.
In the summer vacation of 2009, Li Mei and Zhou Jun got together again under the arrangement of their families and went through the procedures for remarriage.
I search and search, but I still can't shake off the original shadow. I still think the original one is the most suitable. Zhou Jun said that now their life is happier than before. When encountering conflicts, both of them can be more tolerant and neither wants to hurt each other again.
Everything for the children
"I remarried entirely for the sake of the children," Liu Fang, who lives on Fuhou Street, said frankly.
It turns out that Liu Fang divorced her husband Peng Hai three years ago. The son follows his father. The divorce was initially due to Peng Hai's extramarital affair. In a fit of rage, Liu Fang insisted on getting a divorce.
When Liu Fang divorced, his son was 14 years old and in the second year of junior high school. Originally, his son was doing well academically and had no problem getting into a key middle school. However, due to his parents' divorce, his studies were seriously affected. The obedient son suddenly became rebellious. He often went online during self-study and liked to fight with his classmates. Several times, he got into a fight at school and sent his classmates to the hospital. Liu Fang saw this with his own eyes and was very worried in his heart. For a while in the middle, she even specially brought her son to her home, but his son was still not very obedient.
During a conversation, Liu Fang heard her son's voice: "If you remarry Dad, I'll study hard and stop messing around." Under her son's "threatening condition", Liu Fang made a compromise. Coincidentally, Peng Hai also had the same intention, so the two of them went through the remarriage procedures during this Spring Festival.
Now, Liu Fang's son is in his first year of high school. The young man keeps his word. Seeing his parents reconcile, he has also "reformed". Both grades and performance have improved significantly.
The house "forced" a remarriage
"The cost of remarrying is too high!" " Little Bear, born in the 1970s, said that he and his ex-wife had managed to buy a new house in the new town with great difficulty. They only paid off the outstanding house price in the first half of last year. In July 2009, Little Bear and his wife broke up on bad terms over some trivial matters in life. As both of them had a bad temper and refused to give in, in a fit of pique, they went to the Civil Affairs Bureau to handle the divorce procedures.
After the divorce, Little Bear voluntarily gave the house to his wife and rented a place to live by himself. Since the company where Little Bear works has seen a decline in profits since last year, his salary income has decreased, and he still has to bear the considerable rent alone. His life is rather tight. Little Bear, considering that if he remarried, he would have to face the problem of a house again, felt overwhelmed. Seeing that his ex-wife had never remarried either, Little Bear took the initiative to communicate with her and requested a reconciliation. [page]
The staff of the Civil Affairs Office analyzed that the current situation and mentality of Little Bear can well represent the feelings of many people who want to remarry. After the property such as houses and cash is redivided, many people feel that they are "paying the price for their wives". At this time, remarriage becomes the most "ideal" choice.
The taste of "turning back grass" is also good
In the interview, it was found that in life, there are many couples who, even after divorce, still care about each other. However, due to the folk saying "A good horse does not eat its own grass", many couples are somewhat hesitant to "remarry".
"After all, remarriage is like mending a broken mirror. Even if it's mended, there will still be traces of the rift." " Ms. Qiu, a citizen, expressed her concerns about remarriage.
Legally, the length of marriage after remarriage cannot be added to the previous marriage. Remarriage also means a new marriage. Staff members from the Civil Affairs Bureau remind that if a divorced couple is really planning to remarry, they should carefully examine the people around them. Put aside titles like "father of the child" and "long-time husband and wife" for now. Pay more attention to your own emotional needs and have a new relationship with him or her. Only by regarding remarriage as a new marriage and strictly controlling it can your happiness stand the test. In fact, when choosing between remarriage and remarriage, I think remarriage is still the best option. Pan Guangcui, a woman in her seventies, said, "Marriage is about living together. No matter who you live with, there will always be conflicts. If you break up as soon as you encounter conflicts, you might end up breaking up many times in your lifetime." The elderly man said with deep feeling, "Between husband and wife, they still need to 'curl their legs when it's time' and straighten their legs when it's time. They can't let each other run smoothly. To put it bluntly, they should be more accommodating to each other." Sichuan Faneng Law Firm is dedicated to serving you.