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The 'remarriage fever'： a unique flavor
Time:2025-08-28 Views:1020
Marriage is a besieged city, people in the city want to go out, and people outside the city want to come in. "However, after wandering around the city, many people still think it's better to stay inside. The reporter recently learned from the civil affairs department that there are more and more couples nowadays.
It is reported that the most frequent cases of remarriage now are among middle-aged people aged 35 to 50, and remarriage is the result of their calm thinking after divorce. It is understood that impulsive divorce, for the sake of children, and difficulties are important reasons for couples to remarry. Many couples lack the ability to manage their marriage after entering into it. Under the "consumption" of daily necessities, love becomes dull, and conflicts between spouses inevitably arise. The foundation of marriage begins to shake, and even leads to divorce. Divorce cannot truly solve the problem, and new relationships also face the same problem: how can love last when life is as plain as water? The biggest characteristic of the remarried population is that they have learned how to face mundane daily life.
Looking around, the original one is still the most suitable
Li Mei and Zhou Jun are both 32 years old this year, and both are teachers. And they are also classmates in the same class. The foundation of the relationship was originally good, but due to Zhou Jun's love for playing mahjong and often being careless, he could forget everything and lacked ambition. This made Li Mei very sad. After multiple unsuccessful attempts at persuasion, Li Mei insisted on getting a divorce. But Zhou Jun didn't think he had a big mistake in playing cards. He felt that there were many young people who loved playing cards nowadays. He complained that his wife was too harsh on him. In a fit of anger, the two of them decided to deal with it at the end of last year.
The two have an 8-year-old son who is raised by Zhou Jun's mother. After the divorce, every time Li Mei sees her son, she finds that he has become quiet and unhappy, looking very wicked. After his divorce, Zhou Jun had several relationships and felt inferior to Li Mei. Thinking of Li Mei's various benefits, Zhou Jun wanted to remarry and made up his mind to quit his gambling addiction. I have become very responsible, pursued progress in my work, and was promoted to grade leader in school.
But Li Mei still couldn't forget Zhou Jun, after all, Zhou Jun was her first love and the father of her child.
In the summer of 2009, Li Mei and Zhou Jun got together again with the help of their family and completed the procedures for remarriage.
Looking around, I always can't shake off the shadow of the past, but I still feel that the past is the most suitable, "Zhou Jun said. Now their lives are happier than before. When they encounter conflicts, both of them can be more tolerant and don't want to cause harm to each other again.
All for children
I remarried purely for the sake of my child, "said Liu Fang, who lives on Fuhou Street.
Originally, Liu Fang divorced her husband Peng Hai three years ago. Son follows father. The divorce was initially due to Peng Hai's extramarital affair, and Liu Fang was furious and resolutely divorced.
At the time of divorce, Liu Fang's son was 14 years old and in his second year of junior high school. Originally, his son had good grades and had no problem getting into a key high school. However, due to his parents' divorce, his son's studies were severely affected. His obedient son suddenly became rebellious and often used self-study time to go online. He also liked to fight with classmates and had several fights at school, which led to his classmates being taken to the hospital. Liu Fang saw it in his eyes and was anxious in his heart. During a period of time, she even took her son to her own home, but he still didn't listen very well.
During a conversation, Liu Fang heard his son's voice: "If you remarry your father, I will study hard and stop messing around." Under his son's "threatening conditions," Liu Fang made concessions, and coincidentally, Peng Hai also had the same intention. Therefore, the two of them completed the remarriage procedures during this year's Spring Festival.
Now, Liu Fang's son is in his first year of high school. The young man keeps his word and when he sees his parents reconcile, he also "turns over a new leaf". Both grades and performance have greatly improved.
House 'forces' remarriage
The cost of remarriage is too high! "Said Little Bear, born in the 1970s. He and his ex-wife finally bought a new house in the new city, and only just paid off the outstanding house payment in the first half of last year. In July 2009, Little Bear and his wife got into a bad relationship over some trivial matters. Due to their hot tempered personalities and unwillingness to compromise, they went to the Civil Affairs Bureau to handle the divorce procedures in anger.
After the divorce, Little Bear voluntarily gave the house to his wife and came out to rent a house for himself. Due to the decline in profitability and salary income of the company where Little Bear works since last year, he has to bear the expensive rent expenses alone, and his life is somewhat tight. Little Bear considered that if he remarried, he would have to face the problem of a house, and he felt overwhelmed. Seeing that his ex-wife had never remarried, Little Bear took the initiative to communicate with her and requested a settlement. [page]
The staff of the Civil Affairs Office analyzed that the current situation and mentality of Xiao Xiong can represent the voice of many remarried people. When the property such as houses and cash is redistributed, many people feel that it is a "cost to their wives". At this time, remarried has become the most "ideal" choice.
The taste of 'turning back grass' is also good
During the interview, it was found that there are many couples in life who, even after divorce, still care about each other. However, due to the folk saying "a good horse never eats the grass that comes back", many couples are hesitant to face "remarriage".
After all, remarriage is like a broken mirror coming back together, and even if it's patched up, there are still traces of its rupture, "said Ms. Qiu, a citizen, expressing her concerns about remarriage.
Legally, the length of marriage after remarriage cannot be added to the previous one, and remarriage also means a new marriage. "The staff of the Civil Affairs Bureau remind that if a divorced couple is really planning to remarry, then carefully examine the people around you. Names such as" child father "and" long-time couple "should be set aside, and one should pay attention to their emotional needs and start dating again. Only by treating remarriage as a new marriage and strictly controlling it can one's happiness withstand the test. Actually, when it comes to choosing between remarriage and remarriage, I think remarriage is still the best option, "said Pan Guangcui, an elderly man in her 70s Sichuan Faneng Law Firm is dedicated to serving you.