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A seventy year old man works to earn money and treat his wife's illness, demonstrating the true feelings of a remarried couple
Time:2025-08-28 Views:1365
Yangzhou News: Pan Zhitian, 70 years old from Yizheng, and Gao Enmei, 64 years old, are a remarried couple. 26 years ago, when they came together, Pan Laohan had no children, while Gao Enmei brought two sons. The old man treated his wife's son as his own son, and the family lived peacefully and peacefully. But who would have thought that starting from 4 years ago, when Gao Enmei's eldest son was 36 years old, the life of this family began to change. All misfortunes suddenly descended from the sky. However, Mr. Pan never gave up or gave up. Despite being in his seventies, he persisted in working, treating his sick wife, and raising his grandson. Through his actions, he portrayed a true human emotion.
Your grandson is my grandson, no matter how hard it is, I will still raise them
Originally, although Gao Enmei had two sons, the youngest son was somewhat foolish. Six years ago, the elderly couple took their youngest son's child home to raise, and relied on Pan Zhitian to work as a laborer outside and Gao Enmei to raise pigs at home to support their family.
The house leaks overnight. Four years ago, my healthy eldest son suddenly developed stomach cancer. The family borrowed six or seven thousand yuan from east to west to treat their son's illness, but still couldn't save his life. Seeing that her son had passed away, my wife went to another city under the guise of working, leaving only a grandson in his early teens without anyone to take care of. The elderly couple had no choice but to bring back this child.
Having to repay debts while raising two grandsons, the family's financial situation becomes even more difficult to sustain. But Pan Zhitian had no complaints. He told Gao Enmei, "Although life is difficult, even though I don't have children myself, your children are my children, and your grandchildren are my grandchildren. Even if I suffer and work hard, I will still raise them to adulthood." At this time, Pan Zhitian, who is 66 years old, still insists on working outside, earning a meager income of six to seven hundred yuan per month. This is another 4 years.
Under the pull of the elderly couple, the two grandchildren grew up healthy and healthy, but Gao Enmei's body underwent some changes.
We must cure your illness
Two years ago, Gao Enmei suddenly developed a lump on her right eye. At first, this flesh lump was only as big as the tip of the little finger, neither painful nor itchy, and Gao Enmei didn't take it to heart. But not long after, this small lump began to pus and bleed, and the pus and blood often flowed down the corner of Gao Enmei's eye. Pan Zhitian once brought his wife to Yizheng for medical treatment, and the doctor told them that treating this disease was estimated to cost at least tens of thousands of yuan, and they also had to go to Nanjing. Due to the financial difficulties at home, I couldn't even come up with a thousand yuan, let alone tens of thousands, so the idea of going to Nanjing for medical treatment was abandoned.
During the past two years, Gao Enmei has been dragging around and buying some medicine when she feels really uncomfortable
Apply the ointment back. As she watched her condition gradually change, the pressure in her heart grew stronger and stronger. One day over a year ago, an acquaintance of Gao Enmei said to her, "This thing in your eyes may not be a good thing, and it will definitely cost a lot of money to treat it in the future." Gao Enmei's heart sank, and then she thought of death. That night, Gao Enmei really came up with a way to prepare to end her own life. Fortunately, her spouse discovered it in time and saved her life.
Gao Enmei hugged Pan Zhitian and burst into tears, saying, "If I die, how will these two hardworking grandsons survive?" Pan Zhitian comforted his wife, saying, "Don't worry, I will take care of them now and in the future. We also need to cure your illness." In the days that followed, although Pan was old, he still worked outside, saving money to support his family and wanted to treat his wife's illness.
Let's use an analgesic stick then, I'm afraid she'll hurt
This year, the flesh lump on Gao Enmei's eyes worsened further: it continued to expand and soon spread to Gao Enmei's forehead. The flesh lumps not only grew bigger and bigger, but also began to ulcerate. Last Friday, Gao Enmei's youngest son came to Subei Hospital for treatment, and Pan Zhitian encouraged Gao Enmei to also come to the hospital to see a doctor. The ophthalmologist transferred Gao Enmei to the ENT department, and Dr. Wang Zhongliang was also startled when he saw Gao Enmei's condition.
Why didn't you see a doctor earlier
Our family is really poor, we're afraid we can't afford this money
Dr. Wang comforted Gao Enmei and her husband, "You guys stay here first, and I'll try my best to come up with some solutions for the expenses
When the reporter saw Gao Enmei in the hospital ward yesterday, she was receiving intravenous infusion. The forehead and eyes on the right are almost covered by a 10 × 8 centimeter tumor, and the ulcerated tumor surface has formed a black brown scab. Pan Zhitian told reporters that although Gao Enmei's tumor has scabbed on the surface, there is still bleeding inside, and the amount of blood that has flowed out in recent days is about a cup of water.
This tumor not only affects vision now, but also causes dull pain. What I am most worried about now is my two grandsons. The eldest grandson is about to start vocational high school, and the youngest grandson is also about to start junior high school... "Gao Enmei tearfully confided to the reporter.
During the interview, Mr. Pan stayed by his wife's side, helping her wipe away blood from time to time, caring for her in every way possible. There is a detail that deeply moved the reporter.
Because he knew that surgery would be very painful, Mr. Pan specifically requested the doctor to use an analgesic stick for his wife during the surgery. Although a few hundred yuan pain relief stick is also a significant pressure for them who are struggling at home, Mr. Pan still insists, "I'm afraid she'll hurt
The doctor prepares two plans: 'We want to save the patient as much money as possible'
Dr. Wang Zhongliang told reporters that according to the pathological report, Gao Enmei's tumor is squamous cell carcinoma. Actually, if she had received treatment earlier, she might not have converted
Becoming cancer, if surgery is not performed now, the tumor will further spread. ”Dr. Wang said that situations like Gao Enmei's are very rare because if a person has a lump on their face, they will come to the hospital for treatment very early due to the obvious characteristics, and will not delay for such a long time like Gao Enmei, allowing the small lump to develop into a large tumor.
Dr. Wang explained that the current situation is that the tumor has affected the eyes, and efforts will be made to preserve the patient's right eye during surgery, but it is difficult to say for sure. The hospital originally prepared a plan to first remove the facial tumor, and then transplant and reconstruct the frontal and facial defects using a free flap with blood vessels on the arm. However, this plan is equivalent to performing two or three surgeries, because the patient's family is so difficult, so we have planned another plan, "Dr. Wang told reporters, which is to use the existing skin on the face to divide it into three parts and push it towards the defect area. This type of surgery is more difficult, but it can indeed save patients a lot of money. The specific situation will depend on the surgery. If the surgery can be completed well and the cost is minimized, it is certainly the best solution Sichuan Faneng Law Firm is dedicated to serving you.