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Three years of longing for remarriage, but my ex husband only treated me as a pawn
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After the divorce, I started living alone with my daughter. Almost at the same time, the mistress who cursed with me at the phrase 'men in the world are generally black' immediately entered the house and moved into Asia. At this moment, I realized that my anger had been exploited by the mistress! Angered and frustrated, I came to the door to talk to Yaguo. The third party revealed their true colors and stood at the door with a broom, cursing at me head-on. I, who was already not good at speaking, lost in the crowd with a dejected face. I tried to use Xiao San's anti rape tactics to get back to him, but Xiao San sneered on the phone and said, "Big sister, do you want to use this trick to play with me? Are you not mistaken
I was wrong. I shouldn't have been easily provoked by my love rival and handed over the indecisive state of Asia. But now that things have come to this point, regret is of no use. For over half a year, I struggled almost every day with self blame and regret, unable to sleep, yet I had to force myself not to recall the beautiful moments when my home was intact.
The strong desire for remarriage is constantly devouring me, so I went to my parents, relatives, and friends in Asia to share my experiences, hoping to use their curves to save the country and persuade Asia to remarry. Unfortunately, the third party holds Asia in high regard, and outsiders are ultimately powerless. As I was about to torture myself crazy, my younger brother from Asia advised me, "Haste makes waste. Consider it an elegant turn now, don't push him too hard. One day he will come back
That's all I can do. I comforted myself and tried my best to clear up my longing for Asia and my desire for remarriage. I no longer harassed my friends around me and insisted on giving Asia only one condolence call every week - to reflect on my past mistakes and reminisce about the happy past when we were a family of three... So, two years later, Asia never agreed to have dinner with me, but she and her mistress were not married, which gave me some hope for my dream of remarriage.
After rejecting countless well intentioned blind dates arranged by everyone, one day in early 2007, I received my first email from Yaguo after my divorce
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Ex husband cheats, mistress stirs up trouble
I ended my marriage in frustration
One day in my eighth year of marriage, a colleague cautiously reminded me, "Pay attention to your husband and advise him to play less cards. Don't say too much..." It was like being hit with a stick from behind, and I was confused. After careful consideration, I decided to get straight to the point and ask my then husband Yaguo a clear question. Upon hearing this, Yaguo jumped three feet high like a lit firecracker: "Accusation! It's pure slander!" Then, he seemed to have prepared himself by taking out the notebook he carried with him, attending meetings on certain days and dining with his leaders in certain years and months... The dense and seamless schedule proved his "innocence": "It's not for this family, I don't want to play those business mahjong games
Just thinking about it, our 6-year-old daughter is so cute, and our jobs are stable and comfortable. In my opinion, there is no reason for Asia not to be satisfied with the current situation of this family.
This questioning ended with my apology, and for the following year, I have not wavered in any way for similar rumors and gossip.
But one day in 2003, the mistress surfaced. I cried for a long time and tried my best to persuade Asia with my family and job. It can be seen that Yaguo is also very hesitant. He is caught in a dilemma between family ties and mistresses. Sometimes he says, "If you don't get divorced, you'll be a living widow!" Sometimes he softens his heart and hugs me, saying, "Wife, I really want to start over from scratch
I was pulling around with Ya Guolala when I received a call from a mistress. She showed unexpectedly affectionate behavior, not only calling me "Ding Jie", but also saying many "empathetic" words. All the vicious curses I had planned were dissolved by her invisibly. I begged her to spare my family, but the mistress avoided talking about it and only said 'women are difficult to do'.
In future phone calls and meetings, Xiaosan began to tell me with a guilty tone how Yaguo had been dating her behind my back in recent years: "The itinerary that deceived you was his pride. He only contacts me once a week on his phone, and the rest is through office phone calls... everything was planned by him. These men are too bad, eating bowls and thinking about the pot, we are all victims, big sister!" I cried, and Xiaosan seemed to cry even more heartbroken than me. The repeated revelations by Xiaosan have made me increasingly resentful and disappointed towards Asia. Sometimes I even feel that her words criticizing Asia for being unfaithful and cowardly have touched my heart.
I am finally tired and find it even harder to accept what my mistress told me about the various unpleasant descriptions of my body shape, appearance, and personality from Asia... In 2005, at my insistence, Asia and I ended our 10-year marriage.
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After the divorce, the third party succeeded to the throne
I will embark on the path of remarriage from now on
Ding Qiongyu said that she was really "stupid and naive", otherwise she wouldn't have easily been attacked by a cunning mistress back then. From then on, Ding Qiongyu embarked on the path of remarriage, especially after her father-in-law fell seriously ill. She devoted all her energy to accompany the old man through his final life, hoping that such dedication would move her ex husband and lead to her remarriage. But things are unpredictable. After my father-in-law passed away, my ex husband's attitude underwent a 180 degree change. Getting married again is just a wishful dream of Ding Qiongyu.
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Yearly longing for remarriage
My ex husband only treated me as a pawn
Due to the instigation of her mistress, she ended her 10-year marriage in frustration. When she was preparing to remarry, she found herself once again deceived
Words. Dad just found out about the late stage... Would you like to come and see the elderly? "He said wearily on the phone
Of course I would! I put down the phone and immediately took a taxi to the hospital. It's been two years since we last saw each other, and the Asian country in front of my father-in-law's sickbed seems to have aged a bit. It's a bit awkward for us to remain silent. My younger brother pulled me aside and quietly told me that my father-in-law had been down for a week, and the mistress came to serve the old man for two days, but couldn't take it anymore and ran away. As a result, Yaguo fell out with her. My uncle also said, "It was Ya Guo's idea to ask for your help. He's too embarrassed to speak up, but he's actually been thinking of you all along
Finally "defeated" the mistress! I shouted with ecstasy in my heart, and without hesitation, I promised the responsibility of taking care of the elderly. I took the initiative to hold onto Yaguo's hand when I walked to the hospital bed. His hand was cold, but he didn't push me away.
A sisters heard about this and warned me, "Why do you believe him so much? Don't work for hours in vain." But I was overwhelmed by the "victory" and could not listen to anything.
Old man passed away, ex husband turned over
Getting remarried was originally my wishful thinking
Actually, before the divorce, my relationship with my in laws was very ordinary. I even had a conflict with my in laws in front of the elderly because they were hiding pocket money from me. But now, everything can be forgiven, and all face and dignity are no longer important. As long as my efforts can win back my in laws' desire to remarry.
So, most of the time every day, my younger brother from Asia and I take turns going to the hospital to take care of our father-in-law, taking care of the elderly's food, drink, and daily life, and helping them with checks and laboratory tests. The elderly person wants to eat fruits, no matter how expensive they are, I will buy them for him. If the elderly person's laboratory test is too expensive, I will pay out of my own pocket to make up for it. In a month, as someone who works and goes to the hospital, I have lost a whole 8 pounds. It cannot be denied that the reason why I am so willing is entirely to please Yaguo and his family's happiness. I hope to use such actions to move Yaguo and make him understand who is irreplaceable between me and the mistress, ultimately achieving the goal of remarriage.
One day two months later, I was cutting my father-in-law's toenails on the hospital bed when the new nurse joked that he was lucky to have a filial daughter. I was a little embarrassed and didn't know how to explain my current identity. At this moment, Yaguo beside me suddenly spoke up: 'She's not my father's daughter, she's my daughter-in-law.' In an instant, tears welled up in my eyes. After waiting for so long and putting in so much effort, I finally received these long lost words. That day, Yaguo took the initiative to come to my house and brought my luggage back. [page]
After a two-year hiatus, I returned to that home and my heart was filled with mixed emotions - victory! I finally drove away the mistress! Getting married again is only a matter of time!
Yaguo and I have started living together as husband and wife again. He still feels a bit distant from me, and I know that the runaway mistress has never lost contact with Yaguo. However, I believe that as long as I occupy the advantage of family public opinion and this nest, the mistress will do nothing to me. Of course, I also took action. In addition to taking more care of my father-in-law and the life of Asia, I also worked hard to maintain good relationships with my relatives in order to gain their favor and support. One day, my little eyeliner, my daughter, told me: "Dad said that it's boring to marry that aunt. It's very tiring." I was so excited that I almost cried out. Victory was just around the corner!
In April 2008, my father-in-law passed away, and on his deathbed, the elderly man held my hand and said to Yaguo, "I'm leaving, you guys should live well!" Yaguo nodded and said, "Of course, Dad
Because I had just finished handling my father-in-law's funeral, I couldn't bring up the matter of remarriage, but a week later, Yaguo disappeared. Not long after, I received a call from him: 'Dad has left, would you like to move back in?' I asked him with a trembling voice, 'Where was the house we were planning to buy last week?' Yaguo said he didn't have any money. Dad just left and you turned your face and didn't recognize me, it's so despicable! "I pointed out bluntly that Asia was actually using me. He shamelessly replied, "A marriage without love is immoral. We have long lost love and cannot remarry. Besides, I have never promised you anything
Despite the opposition of his family, Yaguo got entangled with Xiaosan again. He rarely goes home and forces me to leave when he does. I am guarding the empty house and don't know where to go. The only clear thing is that the dream of remarriage obtained through begging is like a soap bubble in the sunshine, slowly bursting. Sichuan Faneng Law Firm is dedicated to serving you.