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For three years, I was eager to remarry, but my ex-husband only treated me as a pawn
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After my divorce, I started living alone with my daughter. Almost at the same time, that mistress who kept cursing "all men in the world are as dark" along with me was the first to enter the house and move into an Asian country. It was only at this moment that I realized my anger had been taken advantage of by the mistress! I was both angry and frustrated, so I went to the door to talk to Ya Guo. But the mistress showed her true colors and stood at the door with a broom, cursing me non-stop. I, who was not good at expressing myself to begin with, was defeated and disheveled in the crowd. I tried to use the counter-trick that the mistress had used back then to deal with the other person. The mistress sneered on the phone, "Big sister, do you want to play this trick on me?" You're not mistaken!"
I was wrong. I really shouldn't have been so easily sown discord by a rival in love and given up Ya Guo, who was still hesitant. But now that it has come to this, regret is of no avail. For more than half a year, I was almost tormented by self-blame and regret every day, unable to sleep, yet I still had to force myself not to recall the beautiful moments when my family was complete.
The intense desire to remarry was constantly devouring me. So I went to Ya Guo's parents, relatives and friends to tell them about my experience, hoping to persuade Ya Guo to remarry through them in a roundabout way. Unfortunately, the mistress kept a tight watch on Ya Guo. After all, outsiders were powerless despite their intentions. Seeing that I was about to drive myself crazy, Ya Guo's younger brother advised me, "Haste makes waste. Just consider this as an elegant turn. Don't push him too hard. One day he will come back."
There was no other way. I consoled myself, trying my best to put away my thoughts of Ya Guo and my longing for remarriage. I stopped bothering my friends around me and insisted on giving Ya Guo only one consolation call every week - to reflect on my mistakes in the past and try to recall the happy times when we were a family of three... Two years passed like this. Ya Guo never agreed to have dinner with me once, but Ya Guo and the mistress were not married. This gave my dream of remarrying a little hope.
After turning down countless well-intentioned blind dates arranged by others, one day in early 2007, I received the first call from Ya Guo after my divorce
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The ex-husband was unfaithful and the mistress was sowing discord
I ended my marriage in a huff
One day in the eighth year of our marriage, a colleague carefully reminded me, "Keep an eye on your husband. Advise him to play fewer cards. I won't say more..." It was as if someone had hit me in the back with a heavy blow. I was stunned. After much deliberation, I decided to get straight to the point and ask my then husband, Ya Guo. Upon hearing this, Ya Guo jumped three feet high like a lit firecracker: "Slander!" "Pure slander!" " Then, as if he had been well-prepared, he took out the notebook he was carrying with him, asking for a meeting on a certain date and a meal with his boss on a certain year and month... The tight yet seamless schedule attested to his "innocence" : "If it weren't for this family, I wouldn't want to play those business mahjong games!"
It makes sense. Our six-year-old daughter is so adorable, and both of us have stable and comfortable jobs. In my opinion, there's no reason for Ya Guo not to be content with the current situation of this family.
This accusation ended with my apology. For the following year, I was never swayed by similar rumors in the slightest.
But one day in 2003, the mistress came to light. I wept for a long time and did my best to persuade Ya Guo with my family and job for a long time. It's obvious that Ya Guo is also hesitant. He is caught between family ties and his mistress, sometimes saying, "If you don't get divorced, just be a living widow!" " Sometimes they would tenderly hug me and say, "Honey, I really want to start all over again."
While I was chatting and laughing with Ya Guo, I unexpectedly received a call from my mistress. She was unexpectedly affectionate. Not only did she call me "Sister Ding", but she also said a lot of "empathetic" words. All the vicious curses I had thought of were thus dissolved by her imperceptibly. I begged her to spare my family, but the mistress avoided talking about it and only said, "It's hard to be a woman."
In subsequent phone calls and meetings, the mistress began to tell me in a tone of guilt one after another how Ya Guo had been dating her behind my back over the past few years: "That trip to deceive you was his pride. He only contacted me once a week via his mobile phone, and the rest were through office calls..." Everything was planned by him. These men are so bad. They think of the pot while eating. We are all victims, big sister! I was crying, and the mistress seemed to be crying even more heartbroken than I was. The repeated Revelations from the mistress have made my aversion and disappointment towards Ya Guo grow day by day. Sometimes, I even think that her words criticizing Ya Guo for being unfaithful and weak hit the mark right in my heart.
I was finally exhausted and found it even harder to accept what the mistress had told me about all the bad things Ya Guo had described about my figure, appearance and personality... In 2005, at my insistence, Ya Guo and I ended our ten-year marital relationship.
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After the divorce, the mistress succeeded to the throne
From then on, I embarked on the path of remarriage
Ding Qiongyu said she was really "very naive and foolish", otherwise she wouldn't have been so easily broken into by a scheming mistress back then. From then on, Ding Qiongyu embarked on the path of remarriage. Especially after her father-in-law fell seriously ill, she devoted all her energy to accompanying him through his final days. She hoped that such dedication would touch her ex-husband and lead to their remarriage. But life is unpredictable. After her father-in-law passed away, her ex-husband's attitude underwent a complete 180-degree change. Remarriage was just a one-sided dream of Ding Qiongyu.
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Nian is eager to remarry
My ex-husband, however, only treated me as a pawn
Because of the provocation of her mistress, she angrily ended her ten-year marriage. When she was about to remarry, she found herself deceived again
Words. His voice on the phone was tired: "Dad has just been diagnosed with terminal illness..." Would you like to come and visit the old man?
Of course I do! After hanging up the phone, I immediately took a taxi to the hospital. It had been two years since we last met. Ya Guo by my father-in-law's bedside seemed to have aged a lot. We remained silent and the scene was a bit awkward. Ya Guo's younger brother pulled me aside and whispered to me that actually my father-in-law had been down for a week. That mistress came to serve the old man for two days and then couldn't stand it anymore and ran away. For this reason, Ya Guo fell out with her. My brother-in-law also said, "It was Ya Guo's idea to ask you for help. He was too embarrassed to speak up, but in fact, he has always been thinking of you in his heart."
Finally, I've "defeated" the mistress! I shouted ecstatically in my heart. Without hesitation, I readily promised the responsibility of taking care of the elderly. When I reached the hospital bed, I took Ya Guo's hand voluntarily. His hand was cold, but he didn't push me away.
A sister heard about this and warned me, "On what basis do you trust him so much?" "Don't be a part-time worker for nothing." But I had been carried away by the idea of "victory" and couldn't listen to anything.
The old man passed away and his ex-husband turned hostile
Remarriage was originally my one-sided wish
In fact, before my divorce, my relationship with my in-laws was just so-so. I even had a conflict with Ya Guo in front of them because he secretly gave them pocket money without my knowledge. But now, everything can be let go. All the face and dignity don't matter anymore. As long as my efforts can win back Ya Guo's heart to remarry.
In this way, most of the time every day, it was my brother's family and I who took turns to look after our father-in-law at the hospital. We never let go of our clothes, taking care of his daily life and meals, and running around for his check-ups and tests. The old man wanted to eat fruits. No matter how expensive they were, I would buy them for him. The old man was short of money for the test, so I paid for them out of my own pocket. After a month, I lost a full 8 pounds while working and visiting the hospital. It is undeniable that the reason why I was so willing to give up was entirely to please Ya Guo and his family. I hoped that with such actions, I could touch Ya Guo's heart and make him understand who between me and the mistress is irreplaceable, and ultimately achieve the goal of remarriage.
Two months later, one day, I was cutting my father-in-law's toenails on the hospital bed when the new nurse joked that my father-in-law was so lucky to have a filial daughter. I felt a bit embarrassed and didn't know how to explain my current identity. At this moment, Ya Guo beside me suddenly spoke up, "She's not my dad's daughter. She's my wife." In an instant, my tears gushed out. After waiting for so long and giving so much, I finally got this long-lost sentence. That day, Ya Guo came to my home on his own initiative and carried my luggage back. [page]
After being away for two years and returning to that home, my heart was in turmoil with a mixture of emotions - victory! I finally got rid of the mistress! Remarriage is definitely just a matter of time!
Ya Guo and I have started a life that's like that of a married couple again. He still has a somewhat distant feeling towards me. And I know that the evasive mistress has never cut off contact with Ya Guo. But I believe that as long as I hold the upper hand in the family's public opinion and take control of this family, the mistress will do nothing to me. Of course, I also took action. Besides taking better care of my father-in-law and Ya Guo's life more meticulously, I also made efforts to get along well with my relatives to win their favor and support. One day, my daughter, the little informant I sent out, told me, "Dad said marrying that aunt is meaningless and exhausting." I was so excited that I almost cried out. Victory was just around the corner!
In April 2008, my father-in-law passed away. On his deathbed, the old man held my hand and Ya Guo's and said, "I'm leaving. You two should live well!" Ya Guo nodded and said, "Sure, Dad..."
As I had just handled my father-in-law's funeral, I couldn't bring up the topic of remarriage. But a week later, Ya Guo went missing. Not long after, I received his call: "Dad has passed away. You can move back in." " I asked him in a trembling voice, "Where's the house we were still planning to buy last week?" Ya Guo said he had no money. "Dad just left and you turned your back on him. How despicable!" " I pointed out sharply that Asia was actually taking advantage of me. He shamelessly replied, "A marriage without love is immoral. We have long lost love and there's no way we can remarry." Besides, I have never promised you anything."
Despite his family's opposition, Ya Guo got entangled with his mistress again. He seldom came home and whenever he did, he would force me to leave. I was sitting in the empty house, not knowing where to go or what to do. The only thing that was clear was that the dream of remarriage I had begged for was bursting bit by bit like soap bubbles in the sunlight. Sichuan Faneng Law Firm is dedicated to serving you.